Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them?

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We are only a few weeks from the last disclosure where I found text messages about a medical decision that he made without me knowing but had talked to his mother about it, so I still check his messages from time to time. I have noticed that he has deleted parts of text messages to his mother. Why would he do that unless he was hiding more information from me that he doesn’t want me to see? How many other messages is he deleting that I don’t know about? I have lost the little bit of trust he was just gaining back.



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