Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship?

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We are half way through EMS Online. My spouse is still finding every fault with me. He sounds like he is the victim. He was unfaithful the whole 10 years of our marriage but there is always a justification for his behavior based on what I did or did not do. I keep trying to do whatever I can to help us but it seems that he will not take responsibility for his behavior. When he does say it is his fault, it is when I stop trying and communicating with him. Then the cycle repeats. I feel I'm being manipulated. Will he never face the truth?



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