Hi Rick, My husband and I are wondering what you recommend to us about how to handle intrusive questions about the affair in light of the fact that he has full disclosure and does not want to have pain anymore from getting further details related to the affair. He'll have questions pop into his head and feel an impulse to ask, such as did you do this type of sexual position or say this affectionate thing to each other, but knows that the answer is likely going to be painful so wonders if he might be better off just trying to let them go alone versus asking me because we both agree it's better that I don't answer them. As always, thank you very much for your insights.