Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 700 articles, podcasts, and video.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband had a 2 year affair with his first love. They spent all day texting and would meet 4 times a week plus phone calls and the only way it ended was he got caught. What do you think about this type of affair and the hope for recovery to our marriage.Sections: Recovery LibraryRick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Find HopeFor The Hurt SpouseHandling DiscoveryIntrusive ThoughtsQ&A Recovery LibraryTypes of AffairsWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Video -can-man-be-love-two-women-same time Submitted by [name hidden] on Thu, 01/22/2015 - 21:24 I am 7 months from d day. my husband had a 2 1/2 yr affair with someone he knew from his church when he was in school. she contacted him 2 weeks after filing for divorce to talk about the old days, church, families, etc. he fell right into it and here we are. I have asked myself the same question. he says he never planned to leave me but neither did he leave her till d-day. I will always wonder what would have happened had I not found out. always. it was like he lived a double life.