My husband brought His AP to our home once in the beginning of the affair. Not inside where we live daily but to our pool house. It is a constant reminder to me even though my husband immediately got rid of the furniture after d-day 9 months ago and we don't go in there anymore. Every time I go outside I think of her going in there and what happened there. We are recovering but I think it would be good to move. What is your advice on this?