My husband's recovery is not going well. I know I need to concentrate on my own recovery. Are there any tips on how to handle someone who is not displaying remorse, is full of anger and pain, and deeply depressed? He is suffering from a life of trauma that was previously suppressed. Nothing I do or suggest helps. I am the hurt and betrayed spouse, and am not finding any safety, comfort, or an ounce of love coming from him. When do I call it quits?