Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness?
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Question
I want my spouse to plan special or memorable events on specific dates to help build new memories. My issue is it has no value if I have to tell him to do this. How can I encourage this behavior while not letting my ego cry out that he had to be told to do it?
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