Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe?

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I feel like every time I talk about the relationship I do something to make her feel trapped and like she wants to run away. Because I still love her I tell her this, and she said it makes her feel even more trapped. Every time we talk about it, I seem to make the situation worse. It is especially difficult in this time of social distancing where we are all in the house and D-Day was only one week before everyone had to work from home. We have talked to one therapist before the affair was revealed and she told my wife If she doesn’t love me to let me know. My wife told me she doesn’t have feelings for me but doesn’t want a divorce.



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