Help: My Unfaithful Spouse Refuses to End the Affair

Samuel answers a question regarding how the betrayed spouse should respond when the unfaithful refuses to end their affair.

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What is an effective method

What is an effective method for ending an affair? My husband has tried sending an email - fail, telling her face to face - fail, Now I think it was a failure b/c he re-engaged and maybe even initiated. I wanted a phone call saying it is over, with me present. Now I am wondering if that is me trying to control and seek false safety. He says he has "backed away." that seems to weak and soft - not deliberate enough. not strong enough. I am not comfortable with it. However, I will say his AP is not going to go away easily. She has nothing to lose so to speak as she is single.