Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 06/16/2021 - 13:22

To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.
Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.

Question: 

My husband has cut ties with the affair partner, yet still struggles with watching porn. He is working through it with a counselor. I understand that kicking this addiction will have many ups and downs. His addiction, I believe, has contributed to a lot of his ambivalence. How do I as the betrayed quit hitting the wrong side of his ambivalence? How do I practically create safety for my wayward husband?

Sections: 

RL_Category: 

RL_Media Type: 

What type of affair was it?

Our free Affair Analyzer provides you with insights about your unique situation and gives you a personalized plan of action.
Take the Affair Analyzer

What to read next

Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery?
Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive?
Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive?
Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing?
Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing?

Free Surviving Infidelity Bootcamp

Our experts designed this step-by-step guide to help you survive infidelity. Be intentional with your healing with this free 7-day bootcamp.
Learn More
head-silhouette
 
I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas