We are only 4 weeks from d-day. 2 weeks after discovering my husband had sex with someone and has been engaged in pornography use he had to leave for military training. I felt like things were going to be ok as he left, but now I feel like my world is falling apart. He is so busy with this training we hardly have time to talk, he rarely texts me, when we do talk I end up crying and usually hanging up on him because he just sits there silently. I’m praying things will be better again when we can be together in person, but I am afraid my feelings while he is away is going to do damage and things will be even more ruined when he comes back. We still have at least 1 more month until he returns.