Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal?

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My wife became pregnant during her affair. There is absolutely no way the child is mine. She conceived after D-Day #1, while I was dying from trauma and grief. She has since given me what I believe is full disclosure. She has gone no contact with her affair partner, who does not want to be part of the child's life. I don't know if I can look at a walking reminder of her affair for the rest of my life. How do I find the strength to stay when it means I will have to be a father to the child of her betrayal?



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