Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure?

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I am over 3 years past discovery and I do not feel I have full disclosure. The only things my wife has admitted to are things that I've discovered. She claims it never became sexual, but I have many reasons to believe otherwise, but not hard proof. I do believe there is a small chance its true though. Either way my goal is for us to recover. We've been living together as a couple since Feb 1990 and we got married in 1996. Anniversaries have been tough as no real recovery has taken place and D-Day precedes our anniversary by 10 days. I have so many questions I'd love to ask, but I'm looking for your input on this. Last night my life sent me a link to an episode of Dr. Phil on pathological jealousy. I do fit many of the symptoms. When I got up this morning she asked me to view the last 20 minutes of the show. I did. No discussion yet. I really feel doomed. She will not do recovery work. I'm trying, but I'm doing it for saving the marriage and to not hurt my kids. If the marriage fails I do not see a future.



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