Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 10/25/2017 - 14:25

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Tonight's lesson talks about letting go and not managing my husband’s recovery. I have no idea where that line is. I monitor his computer, phone, schedule, and expect to be able to reach him throughout the day. How do I know what that line is and if I am overstepping it? He needs to be transparent, which he is, and I need to hold him accountable. What is too much?

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