Through the course of our 8 years of marriage my husband has had multiple affairs. I love him deeply and though I’m devastated I want to work on my marriage. I understand when people hate their spouse after infidelity but I don’t I’m just very sad. After the affair comes to light my husband wants to have sex every day and so do I, but it’s a pattern I’ve seen before. And I know that’s not normal. Is it better to wait for healing in the marriage to resume intimacy?