Hi, During my husband 4 years affair he did the most crazy things from sex in my bed, guest house, patio, business lot, all over her home, clients homes, empty lots, parks, and empty homes for sale and much more. If these were not enough, he took my son and some friends on a trip, she was there and while the boys were training they had sex in the car. Still he introduced her to me and my kids brought it over for fundraisers, his birthday and my daughter’s high school graduation party. I didn't have to meet her ever. What was he thinking? If this is not enough, today I found out he was giving her money and gifts throughout the 4 years as well as working on projects around her house. We attended EMS weekend and I'm currently taking Harboring hope. I just don't know how much I can endure. I'm losing my mind. My son who is a senior this year knew all about his affair for 3 1/2 years because he saw him chatting and read the chats. During these 4 years there were also phone sex and pornography. I'm so confused and not sure what to do. What causes a man to do such horrific things? Thank you so much!