I had a stroke 12 yrs ago. He was depressed all 12years and he said I have not helped him and he had to find someone to help him. He has told me that his counselor has said I was no good for him and he understands why he had to divorce me. We have been mwarried 46 yrs.and he is a retired minister and does not see adultery as a sin because he is the happiest he has ever been and he feels as if God has given him this other woman.