I’m having a hard time healing because instances of varying levels of infidelity keep happening. Just when I think I’m feeling better, I find out about something else. He thinks some of these instances aren’t infidelity - messaging an old girlfriend on Facebook and deleting the conversation, messaging a lady from work that he just met on the work app and deleting it, etc. but this is exactly how it started before and I know what he is capable of. He doesn’t want to have boundaries that I would like him to have, boundaries that would make me feel safe. He says he’s tired of having to worry about everything he says and does. Well so am I. When do I determine enough is enough?