Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort?

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My husband is recovering sex addict and doing a lot of work. He had a relapse a year ago. He saw an escort. He told the escort that his wife was dead. Why would he as this? You do not need to impress or hide the fact that you're married, I mean you don't need to explain anything to a prostitute, isn't that kind of the point? Also the escort he chose was a woman of color. Now if you knew my husband you would find this as shocking and unbelievable as I do. Throughout our entire 23 years together he has never liked people of color. It was so bad I had to put a rule that he couldn't talk about people of color in our house or around our kids. So a woman like this is something I never thought I had to worry about. Even when I would find the point he was watching it was only white women. He has no idea why or how he could do this. And she was also a lot more expensive than similar body types of white women. I know this may be a touchy subject. But it is extremely worrisome as he has made me cry and have had horrible fights many times over the decades about the way he views and talks about people of color.



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