Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question How likely is it that my husband is telling the truth now? He had a questionable friendship with a woman at work a few years ago that gave me a lot of grief. His behavior with her is an almost identical to what he did with the woman with whom he admitted having a three-month affair last year. When I gave him the ultimatum, "break off that friendship or divorce me," he chose divorce, but weeks later changed his mind. But he still contin…