We just completed week 12 of EMS Online, restoring intimacy. I am the betrayed spouse and things have been progressing nicely in our recovery. I feel a need to be physical with my husband but he currently has medical issues that prevent completing intercourse. I realize the are other types of intimacy but this is a sticking point for us. Before the affair he told him he just wanted to enjoy my fulfillment but now says there’s nothing in it for him. What do you suggest?