Q&A Because of Medical Problems Our Sex Life Has Become All about Me and There's Nothing for Him. What Can We Do?

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We just completed week 12 of EMS Online, restoring intimacy. I am the betrayed spouse and things have been progressing nicely in our recovery. I feel a need to be physical with my husband but he currently has medical issues that prevent completing intercourse. I realize the are other types of intimacy but this is a sticking point for us. Before the affair he told him he just wanted to enjoy my fulfillment but now says there’s nothing in it for him. What do you suggest?



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