Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Thu, 07/22/2021 - 10:34

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Question: 

In the EMS Online videos, this statement is always made “ My mate is not my problem, my mate only reveals the problem in me”. I do understand this statement in the context of marriage but I could not relate it in the context of infidelity. Could you please explain this statement with regard to infidelity by giving an example?

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