Q&A Can You Explain Why a Book on Sexual Retraining Won't Trigger My Mate?

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Hi Rick,

Thank you very much for the book suggestion of, " Come As You Are," to help me re-connect physically and sexually with my husband. I feel it will be very helpful. My question this week has to do with a comment you made in your answer last week to my question, Will Your Book Suggestion Trigger Me?. You said you didn't think that reading the book, "Restoring the Pleasure'" would trigger my husband to think about or remind him of his sexual acting out with prostitutes. Why is that? I am thinking that he had so MUCH sex with other women, that those experiences/encounters would be popping up in his mind all the time ( and he would be visualizing the women) if we are reading about sex and/or having sex. Thank you so much for any insights and help you can give.




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