Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Fri, 08/02/2019 - 12:52

To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.
Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.

Question: 

My husband and I are 14 months out of his emotional affair. We have been married for 24 years. He pursued a much younger woman and since then, I have lost much confidence in myself. I am working to restore my lost confidence but can’t help but feel that he was more attracted to her. My husband is remorseful and says he loves me and finds me attractive, but I feel that these are just empty words.The other day, a man approached me and complimented the way I was dressed. I was flattered. I want to believe my husband but can’t. Why?

Sections: 

RL_Category: 

RL_Media Type: 

What type of affair was it?

Our free Affair Analyzer provides you with insights about your unique situation and gives you a personalized plan of action.
Take the Affair Analyzer

What to read next

Q&A Can We Recover From This?
Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening?
Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity?
Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away?

Free Surviving Infidelity Bootcamp

Our experts designed this step-by-step guide to help you survive infidelity. Be intentional with your healing with this free 7-day bootcamp.
Learn More
head-silhouette
 
I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas