Dear Rick, Thank you for helping us along this journey. My husband and I are in EMSO and are working on the "Why" chapter. For me, the material is important and relevant but for my husband, the betrayed, he did not see how this lesson is helpful for him. He can see that it shows a cycle whereby some people ended up choosing to be unfaithful, but doesn't find this reduces his pain or helps him feel loved given that I chose this. We welcome your insights.