Q&A How Can We Become More Transparent with Each Other?

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We are almost one year post ems weekend and in week 35 of MFL and having great progress. We betrayed each other. I’d like to have open honest respectful non threatening communication with my husband, but he says he isn’t quite ready for that. I would like to be able to share what’s in my heart, like if another male is attractive or crazy dreams I’ve had about other men or who he thinks is super hot. I realize my own vulnerability and I would like to be able to share these thoughts with him. I notice some couples are at a point where these types of conversations aren’t threatening anymore. I respect and I am ok with my husband's insecurities on this. What do I do until he’s ready to receive my thoughts on these types of things?



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