I am the betrayed and we are only two months past discovery. I am still processing what happened and still have a lot of questions. My husband says he wants to fix “us” but is defensive and angry most of the time. Right now it seems we are stuck because I need to talk but he is too ashamed to talk without anger. How do I navigate this time when he is too early into his recovery to be safe for me but I desperately need him to give me the answers I need for my recovery?