Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use?

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Question

During the time my husband was having his affairs he would view pornography online daily or at the least every other day for 1/2 hours to 2 hours per day. Post affairs, he still does the same, but not as frequently. The content of the porn is always the same, anal sex, with usually a significantly older women. My husband knows this upsets me. I can't explain to you, or to my husband, why it upsets me. My husband hides this porn from me and deletes the searches from his phone. I know he continues to do so because he does not always remember to delete the searches or sites. What is going on? Is this use of pornography normal for a man? He says ALL men do it. Am I just being ridiculous? Should I let this porn use slide? I could probably make myself adjust to it and ignore it if someone could tell me it is appropriate.

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