Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner?

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I am the wayward spouse and my wife insist that I must agree in calling the affair partners vulgar names. If reply to her question, “Tell me they are stupid, or tell me why they are not stupid”, with anything other than her preferred response then I am somehow defending them and end up being yelled out even worse. If don’t reply then I am passive aggressive and just trying to control the situation. My question is how I should handle this situation?



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