Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate?

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I need advice on requesting a Polygraph from my husband. When I asked, he said he would although he is not happy about it. I feel there are still things that he hasn't told me. When I started to suspect an affair I asked so many questions and he denied everything and kept up with the lies for almost 2 years before he confessed in Nov last year. Before this he never lied accept about his pornography addiction from childhood which I discovered during the time he was having an affair. It is so difficult not to trust the one you once felt was always truthful and had only your best interest in  mind. I constantly battle with everything and anything he tells me. I also sometimes wonder if he still has contact with the ap. Some things just doesn't add up. Can a Polygraph test help? Can it help me to move on and believe at least that what he has told me? What kind of questions is the right questions? And is it beneficial to ask these questions before a test and then ask the same questions during a Polygraph test. We stay in South Africa so hopefully we will get the right kind of test here. Is there a specific kind of test or all the same? We are currently busy with EMS Online as well. Thank you for your advice.




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