Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This?

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I am the unfaithful spouse. I had a 9 month affair with a coworker. I am so disgusted with myself and my actions. My wife and I attended an EMS weekend and we made incredible progress. At the weekend my wife said she felt we could overcome this and was “all in”. Now 3 weeks after returning home she wants out. She states she loves me like no other and will never love again but cannot be with me. How do I show her we can recover from this?



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