We are 1 week into reconciliation after discovery day and her wanting to reconcile. We're have been living apart for 6 months since she kicked me out before I knew. At what point in this process, should I essentially put my foot down in a non controlling way, to say I need to be back home. We've both agreed to take this slow, as we need to start from fresh. But I fear this process will take longer than required for us to get to a "good place" if I'm not home with the kids and my wife, for her to get used to being around me again.