The story the affair partner told me and my husband's story differ greatly, so very hard to believe him. He says they never did anything sexual, while she stated they had sex multiple times and that he told her he loved her. She did admit that they hadn't seen each other in over a year, and only saw each other very infrequently when they did. She is a stripper and did not know he was married. She wouldn't say how many times or where they had sex, so possible she is lying, but seems very unlikely. Without knowing the truth and thinking I do not have the truth, how can you move forward?