My husband is a recovering sex addict. We are currently separated while he creates safety. My question is this; is is healthy for him to have sex with me (via the phone) while he recovers or is it harmful to the healing process? The phone was a former way of cheating and acting out and I am concerned that repeating the same behavior, with me on the other end this time, will continue to create unhealthy brain associations. He says that he wants to associate everything with me now, and that phone sex with me is something he wants and will help him associate all sex with me. Any advice on this?