My husband had a 15 month affair, discovery was November 2017. We are almost 7 months into it...I feel like if I can make it after D-Day for the same amount of time that they took away then I can be finished with it. Does this perspective sound reasonable? I just don't want to have a memory of the most painful day of my life. I would rather celebrate my success in working on our marriage for the same amount of time and having an anniversary that's about hard work and success at the end of the 15 months. What are your thoughts?