Do the unfaithful think of us while we're separated? My husband is in MLC (midlife crisis?) and is in a long distance affair. Our counsellor believes he is ambivalent but he has taken a step towards the AP at this time. I haven't seen him in a month as I am trying to detach but we have had a few phone calls and texts. It makes me wonder during this time, if he is even thinking about me? One website I was on where the unfaithful was answering questions said that as often as we think of them, they are thinking of us. Any insights?