Q&A How do I Decide to Stay or Go?

Question

Any advice on the steps on how to decide whether to stay or go? Still in the home with my spouse, no kids. He is in the affair, about a year now off and on it appears. He doesn't want a divorce nor want me to file divorce. I notice he is coming home, not staying out like he use to. Then will be gone again for one day until late. He compared his parents getting divorced and then remarried to us. He is talking to me a lot more, not about us or the affair, hel...