Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP?

My husband says he wants to save long marriage after series of affairs, last one emotional attachment and deep involvement for years. However, I learned he still calls her (less than in past) and denies it . What is normal and reasonable to expect in ending/disengaging such a mood elevating affair? What affirmative actions are recommended beyond "it's over" which words have been repeated in the past and have no meaning? I need more to feel safe.

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