I am the wayward spouse. After six months of disclosures I have finally told my story and all my infidelities over our 29 years of marriage. Now my wife says that it is too late and wants to show me how it feels to be on her end. She told me that she is going to start dating for the purpose of having sex. She plans on going with me to marriage counseling and church with the intent of being purposefully hypocritical. How do I talk to her? Where should we seek advice?