Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner
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Question
My husband has cut off all contact with his AP, it has been 6 weeks. He is still ambivalent, although he rarely talks about those feelings because he "doesn't want to hurt me". Should I encourage him to tell me about those feelings as a way for us to be closer, or is it OK for me to not want to hear about it? Because it does hurt me to hear him say it.
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