Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair?

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There's been some discussion on the community forum about whether or not it's ever a good idea to let the AP's spouse or significant other know about the affair. I know there's a lot of things to consider when making a decision like this. I certainly wish someone would have had told me sooner instead of finding out when I did. Isn't it God's will that sin is exposed and in the light and not hidden? I appreciate your thoughts.



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