Hi Rick, I am an unfaithful and I've signed up for the library and plan to do the program for unfaithful spouses before hopefully doing EMSO together with my wife. Through the bootcamp I learned about limerance and realized that all my female "love relationships" including my wife were based on limerance. It is just over 7 days since full disclosure but it’s the second time I have been unfaithful from 2 years ago with partial disclosure. It was an amazing burden to have every skeleton in the cupboard released but I do not know what love is now and how do I salvage my marriage because part of me never wants to be married in case I ever hurt anyone ever again.