Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight?

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I saw my husband chatting with someone on his work computer and I asked him to open the window. He said, "I don't know what you're talking about" and closed the window. He insists there was nothing to see, but won't show me the conversation. His reasoning is simply, I just don't want to show you," but is adamant about how he has cut off communication with his affair partner. He does this quite often when I see something suspicious and ask him. He has not given a full disclosure and has told me "I've told you what I will tell you and nothing more." He has gone so far as to deny details he has given me in the past. The first D-Day was at the end of March when he told me he was making out with a coworker, second was at the beginning of April when I found out they were sleeping together, the third was at the end of April when I found out he also had a history of using escorts. Our last D-Day was in June, right before our EMS Weekend, when I caught him and his affair partner kissing.



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