We are almost a year from discovery. We've tried multiple forms of therapy but live in a pretty rural area and haven't had much success. Then my husband found the EMS Online course which we are on week 11 of. At week 10 I discovered he's been communicating with the affair partner this entire year. She lives out of state and when I found out a year ago he quit traveling for work. They haven't seen each other but changed their form of communication because I've been checking his phone. His only response to why is that he was unsure if we were going to work out or not. He's continuing the course and claims it's really done this time. My whole view on the course work we've done so far has changed. I feel like it was a waist and none of it was real. Is there hope for us at this point and where do we go from here if we've already almost completed the EMS Online course?