Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse?

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My wayward spouse thinks it’s a bad idea that the affair partner’s mate have all the information that I have. I think he has a right to know and have all of the information. Is it helpful in our healing?



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I think often about contacting the AP’s spouse.. As much as I feel he has a right to know I also don’t want to be the person who decides to tell him because I know how much pain it causes. Being honest with myself is admitting I want to tell the spouse to punish the AP....feels like revenge.. That can never have a good outcome.

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