Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down?

We have completed the programs with Affair Recovery, currently in Married for Life, and have seen multiple therapists. My spouse tells everyone that everything is going well but behind closed doors, it is the complete opposite. We are basically roommates. We go multiple days without any conversation and he will bring up some kind of excuse of external factors for the shutdown. I wonder when our marriage will become the priority. I feel abandoned and alone most of the time. I am trying to continue on my own recovery path but what about our path together?