In the beginning my wayward spouse was doing everything to make things right. He even confessed the affair that was going on our entire 17 years together and 12 years of marriage, he did not get caught. We did EMS weekend, married for life, marriage and individual counseling, and a local support group for sexual sin. He prayed with me did devotions with me, tried to help more. But now all those things have ended... I feel like nothing truly changed. Are my standards too high? What does a healed unfaithful look like a year and a half out?