I am the betrayed spouse. Before I came across Affair Recovery, I did everything you say not to do. Now my spouse is too attached to her affair partner. I am a believer in Jesus but I’m at a crossroads. I am now ready for healing and set in motion boundaries as she refuses to get help. I believe I am paying the price for the wrong advice and decisions that I have allowed to take place which is now resulting in a long term healing process for both me and my spouse. What should I do?