Q&A What Is Normal in Our Situation?

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I am struggling to find what normal feels like at the moment. My husband has returned to our bedroom but he sent a text to the affair partner from our bed!! I am really not OK with this but also feel like things have started to go well again. I don't want my openness to be abused. I told him I did not want that happening and he responded with "I pay the rent". It feels almost impossible to get through when he is deep in limerence. What is your suggestion for situations like this, when he texts her in front of me?



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