Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs?

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Searching for a specific photo for on my husband’s laptop, I came across a video close-up of an extremely explicit shot of a woman. The title was also inappropriate and directed towards my husband. The movie was next to nude and half naked photos of a woman showing everything, and I recognized her as a beautiful plus size model who had contacted my husband on FB after a random meeting, inviting him for coffee. I had asked him not to contact her, and was shocked that he had even conversed with her, but he made a ton of excuses, and told me that she was happily married. I now found out that he initiated a sexual relationship that lasted all summer – she would come to his hotel, whenever he was in LA where she lives or in NY where she models. This is after three years of hard reconciliation work which he has only reluctantly participated in after I found out about his affair frenzy 5 years ago that lasted 6 months. I told him that the consequence of another affair would be that he should tell our children what he had done, and that I would divorce him. He has cried and sought out help and contacted a counselor on your website and claims that he will do anything – everything he should have done three years ago…. I am crushed, our children are deeply affected, and I know that he can do this again whenever he wants to, because he travels. I don’t know what to do.



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